My adult daughter verbally abuses me. My daughter told me herself I was an excellent mother. And everyone knows tells me that too. But she told me today that something must be wrong with me and maybe her dad and my parents aren't wrong after all. She has been very cruel. Sep 25, 2014 · Yeah, as long as OP doesn't stand up for herself, her daughter can fall for the strange logic that she didn't have an abusive father, she had a weak mother who invited the abuse. It sounds horrible, but it seems that this could be the case. Anyway, the daughter is 23, it's time to stop nurturing her and let her learn to take care of herself.
By putting an end to your abuse of her. Emotional and psychological abuse are insidious, and perpetrated covertly can be very hard to call out. Besides when such abusers are called out, they tend to step up the abuse and/or make it more subtle so. * An adult daughter can't be abusive to her mother if the mother does not allow it! If the mother allows it then she is an enabler for her daughters disrespectful behavior.
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